We come across a large number of people saying that I hate my job. There can be a number of realisms behind this phrase. For example people may hate their workplace, they may not be willing to work in the career they are, there may be situation where they do not like the people they work with and last but not the least one of the main reasons for people saying I hate my job is that they do not like the people they are working for. These are usually the immediate supervisors or bosses of the people. When we see someone saying that I hate my job because I hate my boss then there are several complaints that people usually have from their bosses. Some of those are as follows:
- My boss is a micro manager and I have no space of my own for decision making.
- My boss never understands how hard I and my team are working.
- I never get a thank you even if i complete my work before time.
- My boss makes a number of thinly veiled threats to me.
These above mentioned are some of the complaints that people have from their bosses and thus such a person starts saying I hate my job. In fact no one can deny the fact that your boss may remain there as he will not be hit by a truck the next morning and at the same time quitting your job is not the solution. So instead of saying that I hate my job it is better to think something else. No doubt if you remain ineffective at work for your boss then let me tell you that you are in a situation where you are paying really high amount for nothing. It must be pretty much clear in our minds that life never rewards the ability; it always rewards the use of ability. If we observe carefully we will see that there are a number of people who are capable but they are afraid to act and this is the point where they commit a huge mistake. Thus to conclude all this I would say that you cannot do anything about your boss thus what you have to do is to take control of your own reins. Own your life and you will find things totally changed for you.
Make it clear to you that just saying that I hate my job because I hate my boss will not at all work out for you. It has been reported by the personal development gurus that word responsibility must be broken down in to two words i.e. respond and ability. They say that one can think of the responsibility as your ability to respond.
In short it will not help you if you keep on thinking that you hate your boss all you have to do is to turn things in your favor. It can only be done when you will take control of your own life.